Your Child and Cliques
Find information on cliques at school, how they affect your child, and what you can do to help if your child is being targeted by a group of kids.
By: Lindsay Hutton
In this article, you will find:
Handling a clique problem
Helping your child deal with a clique can be tough, especially when the traits that you admire in your child are the reason she is being targeted by a group of kids. If your child looks, acts, or dresses differently than others do, she may be ridiculed and deemed "not worthy" of belonging to a clique. Research has shown this can take an emotional toll. Obviously, being on the receiving end of nasty remarks can make a child feel hurt, angry, and frustrated. If a child is isolated or left out by a clique, her self-esteem may suffer, and she may feel lonely and depressed. Supportive people, such as teachers and family members, can provide comfort to a child who is being targeted or ignored by a clique. Adults may also be able to encourage kids who belong to a group not to leave others out, and to treat others with respect and kindness.The Nemours Foundation has the following advice for kids who are dealing with being left out by a clique: