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Ask Dr. Ana: What Is Gentle Parenting and Should I Try It?

Dr. Ana answers what gentle parenting is, why it’s popular, and the pros and cons of this approach to raising children.

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Updated: April 18, 2025
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Updated: April 18, 2025

Question:

What the heck is gentle parenting and why would people do it?? 

Dr. Ana’s Answer:

I love your question! If you follow me, you will know that I am not a big fan of gentle parenting. Gentle parenting was introduced by Sarah Ockwell-Smith in 2015. Since then, it went viral in social media. In my opinion, gentle parenting is a reaction to the way many parents these days were raised. Many parents were raised in a much more authoritarian way, and in their effort to do it differently, they have gone to the other extreme.  

Don’t get me wrong, there are some aspects of gentle parenting that are good. For example, it promotes aspects of authoritative parenting, which is the gold standard of parenting. However, there are many aspects that I don’t agree with. For example, one big problem is that it is a very intensive way of parenting that places unrealistic expectations on parents. 

I wrote a very detailed article on gentle parenting a while ago. You can find it here: Gentle Parenting: Is It Best? Have a read and let me know your thoughts! 

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I hope this information helps! 

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Ana 

Dr Ana Aznar 

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